The ultimate guide to planning bridesmaid outfits for an Indian wedding

Being asked to be a bridesmaid is a special honour, one that comes with joy, excitement, and just the right amount of responsibility. For Indian weddings, this role carries even more weight (lehengas can be so heavy!): amidst the beauty and scale of multi-day celebrations, the bride’s inner circle isn’t just supporting her emotionally but is also part of the visual story being created. Choosing outfits for bridesmaids, then, becomes more than just shopping; it’s about weaving cohesion, comfort, friendship and style into the larger wedding narrative.

Unlike Western weddings, where a dress might do the trick, the options here are far more expansive: lehengas, shararas, pre-draped saris, and more. With so many silhouettes and styles to consider, planning ahead is key.

Read on for our guide to smoothly picking the perfect bridesmaids' outfits.

For the bride: 

Fix the budget early

The first step is always financial clarity. Establishing a budget ensures that all bridesmaids are on the same page, preventing last-minute discomfort or overspending.

Plan well in advance

Begin outfit planning at least seven to eight months before the big day. This allows enough time to source the looks, get alterations done, and avoid the panic of rushed decisions.

Choose a colour palette, not one outfit

Matching silhouettes often sound ideal, but seldom suit every body type. A smarter approach is to decide on a cohesive colour palette that unifies the bridal party while allowing each bridesmaid to choose a silhouette that flatters her. Stick to shades that are practical, easy to source, and less likely to vary in tone. This ensures consistency, better photographs, and harmony without feeling restrictive.

Leave room for flexibility

Small variations within the chosen palette—be it lighter or darker shades, different embellishments, or even subtle print changes—allow individuality to shine while still maintaining cohesion.

For the bridesmaids:

Look at the bigger picture

This process isn’t meant to be stressful; it’s about celebrating someone you love on the most important day of her life. Keep the joy of the occasion front and centre. Remember, your presence and support matter more than the outfit itself.

Be open-minded

Whether it’s a silhouette you wouldn’t normally wear or a colour outside your comfort zone, go in with flexibility. Weddings are about collective harmony, not just personal style. Embracing something new might even surprise you with a look you love.

Share constructive feedback

Be honest but kind. If something doesn’t work, speak up early so the bride has time to make changes. Collaboration keeps everyone happy. Framing suggestions positively helps avoid unnecessary tension.

Remember to have fun!

At the end of the day, this is about creating memories together. From fittings to final touches, treat the process as an extension of the celebration itself. These behind-the-scenes moments will become just as special as the wedding day.

Outfit planning for bridesmaids can feel like a maze of choices, but with thoughtful preparation and a spirit of collaboration, it becomes a bonding experience rather than a stresser. Indian weddings thrive on colour, festivities, individuality, and collective joy, and bridesmaid dressing is no exception. When handled with care, it’s not just about looking coordinated; it’s about celebrating togetherness in style.

Lead image: Tarun Tahiliani/Instagram 

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