Do people need to know you’re getting married?

Instagram is a wonderful platform for sharing everything, from funny reels to inspiring facts and dream-worthy landscapes. However, one thing I don't quite understand is why people announce their weddings there.

I believe in love deeply and want to express it to the person I’m marrying in a meaningful way. When that moment comes, I would prefer that only the people we've personally invited know about the venue and dates. The trend of posting wedding invitations on social media seems to undermine the intimate nature of the celebration, which is meant to be filled with joy, laughter, delicious food, drinks, and perhaps a few tears.

Here’s why I think keeping the details more private can enhance the experience.

Makes the occasion more meaningful
When the occasion involves just your select few, the love and affection flow more freely, allowing everyone to be their true and authentic selves. This not only enhances the festivities but also affirms their special place in your life. Many people, aiming to please others, might broadcast their wedding plans and even invite a wider audience. However, those who keep things private and avoid social media often enjoy a more meaningful and enduring marriage—one that genuinely brings their loved ones together.

Creates stronger relationships
A week-long wedding creates a deeper understanding of each other's personalities, builds new connections, and can even mend some broken relationships. It’s essentially a gathering of familiar faces, with relationships growing stronger as you navigate challenges together. It brings family and friends together to tackle problems, cherish moments, and share both laughter and tears. However, having everyone involved can detract from the enjoyment, as the focus shifts to tending to guests and managing all the associated details.

Tackles jealousy and negativity
Being in the public eye often invites jealousy and negativity. This can extend to your choice of venue, attire, or even your partner. When you allow others to scrutinise these personal decisions, it opens the door to judgment. Your close-knit circle understands your issues and circumstances, eliminating concerns about critical looks or unwelcome opinions.

Getting married should be a joyful and emotional occasion, shared with those you truly love. Publicising it can lead to unwanted questions and energies that may negatively impact the entire celebration. So, do people really need to know you're getting married? The answer is no.

Lead image: Sonakshi Sinha/Instagram.

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