9 bride behaviors that can annoy their bridesmaids

Being a bridesmaid isn’t just an honour—it’s a significant commitment that requires more than 100 per cent effort throughout the wedding events. While most bridesmaids do their best, there are times when the bride may not appreciate their efforts, making the experience stressful. The bride's extravagant demands and last-minute changes can make bridesmaids feel more like employees than cherished friends.

Here are some common things brides do that annoy their bridesmaids—and how to avoid them.

Choosing dresses that the bridesmaid don’t prefer

While the bride has the final say on bridesmaid dresses, forcing friends to wear something that doesn’t suit their body type or style can lead to frustration. Dresses that are uncomfortable, overly revealing, or unreasonably expensive can make the experience unpleasant for everyone involved.

Thinking the bridesmaids will always be available

Some brides expect their bridesmaids to be available at a moment's notice—whether for dress fittings, pre-wedding events, or other duties. Brides should remember that their friends have jobs, families, and other responsibilities. Being mindful of their time commitments will make the process smoother for everyone.

Making it all about themselves

Things can go south when brides justify their demands by saying, "It’s my day." Expecting bridesmaids to follow all requests blindly, while disregarding their feelings, can turn a joyful occasion into a stressful ordeal. Brides should remember that compromise, appreciation, and flexibility are key to maintaining friendships.

A lot of last-minute changes and not communicating properly

With so much happening in a short amount of time, it’s crucial for brides to keep their bridal party informed and avoid drastic changes close to the wedding day. Last-minute changes to the wedding itinerary, dress choices, or important details can create unnecessary stress for everyone involved.

Giving the bridesmaids too much to do

While it’s reasonable to ask bridesmaids to help with certain tasks, expecting them to manage decorations, talk to vendors, and plan multiple events can be overwhelming. Brides should delegate tasks responsibly, and if the workload becomes too much, hiring a professional wedding planner can keep things organized and stress-free.

Having a favourite bridesmaid

Nothing's more uncomfortable than when a bride plays favourites within her bridal party. Giving one bridesmaid special treatment or constantly siding with a particular friend can lead to awkwardness and resentment. Fair treatment is essential to keeping the peace among the group.

Not being appreciative

Bridesmaids work hard to make the wedding day special, and failing to acknowledge their efforts can be disheartening. Brides should take the time to say thank you, recognise the hard work, or even give a small token of appreciation. A little gratitude goes a long way in maintaining strong friendships.

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