The groom’s guide to pre-wedding self-care that goes beyond a haircut

Today’s groom is doing more than just showing up in a sherwani. He’s planning playlists, coordinating mandap décor, and yes, finally learning what a toner does. Because great wedding style doesn’t stop at the outfit, it starts with grooming. Whether you’re weeks away from walking down the aisle or just starting to panic-Google ‘pre-wedding skincare for men’, we’ve got you. This guide breaks down exactly what to do—and when—so you look like your best, most radiant self on the big day. From skincare and beard care to scent strategy and stress hacks, here’s everything you need to add to your prep list.

Start with skin (and no, face wash alone doesn’t count)

If you think a splash of water and the occasional face scrub are enough, think again. A solid skincare routine includes a cleanser, toner, serum, moisturiser, and SPF. Start incorporating these products into your skincare routine at least a month before the wedding, especially if late nights and stress breakouts are on the guest list. Keep it simple but consistent.

The Ordinary The Balance Set, ₹3,800

Cut, style, trim, repeat

Your haircut should be locked in at least a week before the wedding—fresh enough to look sharp, but not so fresh you still smell like the salon. Not sure what works for you? Taper fade for sharp jawlines, slick back if you’re suit-core, or just a neat French crop if you’re low-maintenance. Also, don’t forget beard grooming. Keep it neat, or go for a clean shave—either way, do it right.

Moroccanoil Hydrating Styling Hair Cream, ₹3,340

Say yes to the Mani-Pedi

No, it’s not “extra.” You’re going to be showing off that ring, shaking hands, and possibly touching your own face in a bunch of candid shots. Clean, trimmed nails and smooth feet are non-negotiable—because your partner will notice (and so will her mom).

Menhood Man-Cure Kit, ₹3,999

Full-body detox (For the body and the brain)

Book yourself a spa day—full body massage + facial + maybe a nap you didn’t know you needed. Can’t make it to the spa? No problem. At-home masks are your cheat code. Look for ingredients like clay, niacinamide, or charcoal to reset your skin. And yes, a reminder to put your phone on DND for that one hour.

The Body Shop Charcoal Pore-Minimising Mask, ₹2,395

Find your fragrance personality

After the fit is sorted, it’s time to lock in your scent. Aquatic if you want fresh and beachy, oud if you’re going full regal, clean citrus for summer weddings, or musky wood if you’re aiming for mysterious-but-married. You can also layer scents—like citrus + musk or wood + spice—to make it personal. Just don’t overdo it. It’s a wedding, not a nightclub.

Maison Margiela Replica Jazz Club Eau De Toilette, ₹5,600

Don’t forget to freshen up

You’ve got the look, the glow, the scent—now seal the deal with fresh breath. Whether it’s your pheras, the reception toast, or that first kiss moment, nobody wants to smell an aftertaste. Brush twice, floss (seriously), and keep a mint handy. A good mouthwash makes all the difference, especially for morning ceremonies.

Remember: this is your red carpet moment, too. Put in the effort, plan ahead, and show up looking like the most dapper version of yourself. The bottom line? When you look good, you feel good—and that's the energy you want walking into forever.

Lead image credit: Vicky Kaushal, Vedang Raina, Varun Dhawan/Instagram

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