How to deal with cold feet before the wedding

These tips will help you get over it!

It’s safe to say most people wanting to get married think of marriage as a lifelong thing. The partner you choose to spend the rest of your life with can have an impact on the course your life takes. Whether they are supportive and aligned with your goals, makes a lot of difference. Since it is a huge decision, many people think and overthink about it, often resulting in cold feet, just before the wedding. 

And that is okay. Almost everyone feels cold feet before the wedding, but there are ways you can deal with it. Allow us… 

Introspect

When you’re experiencing cold feet before the wedding, it can feel very overwhelming and you may start questioning everything. In such moments, it’s important to introspect and understand that what you are feeling is temporary and stems from the wedding stress. 

Spend some stress-free time together

Before the wedding, many couples end up fighting a lot—over family differences, logistics of the functions, and more. It’s important to take regular breaks with bae so you can just spend time with them, without stressing about anything else. This will not only heal you but also your relationship from the strain everything has been putting on it.

Communicate about your anxieties

They say your partner should also be your best friend—and that’s the best advice you will ever receive. Share your anxieties with them and talk it out instead of bottling them up. You will realise that you were overthinking most of it, and they will offer you love and comfort to heal.

Keep your eyes on the goal 

Remember why you said yes to marrying them in the first place. Think of all the pros and remember that this too shall pass. It’s a short period of nervousness versus a lifetime with the love of your life. 

Have a go-to person 

When anxieties hit, have that one person on speed dial who will listen to you without judgment and help you stay focussed. They will help you reason, fight your fears, and feel that everything will be okay.

 

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